| CONGREGATIONAL CARE |
| Written by Lisa Abb |
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As a result, there are countless people today who, though they really could benefit from a Christian friend who would listen and care for them, instead tough it out on their own. They remain the strong silent type, or wear a smile across a face that is holding back a flood of tears. Society encourages this (particularly for men). To ask for help is to admit. weakness. To show weakness is to admit inferiority. But God did not create us to be independent. We were created to be interdependent. God’s Word is clear on this. The New Testament underscores this theme with more than 50 verses that contain the words “one another.” These verses include admonitions such as “love one another,” “encourage one another,” “build up one another.” Do you see? WE are to allow other people to love, encourage, build up and pray for US! Why is it so difficult for some of us to ask for help, (guilt, sham, inadequacy, fear of rejection)? Many would much prefer to suffer alone than ask for help. But suffering alone is not God’s intent for us. Jesus promises, “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.” (Mt.11:28) We can receive this promised rest when we turn to one another for comfort and help. Stephen Ministers know all about receiving care. Many have been on the receiving end of care at an earlier point in their lives – something that has motivated them to give care now. They know how difficult it is to ask for help, but they also know the great personal and spiritual growth and healing that follows. They know how to respond in a loving, caring, and nonjudgmental manner. After the holidays, the difficulties of life can often overwhelm us. Open your heart to receiving God’s love and grace through another person. Stephen Ministry offers a confidential relationship with someone who will listen to you and provide you with the care and encouragement you need, while Christ works inside to bring rest to your weary, burdened heart. For more information, you may contact Lisa Abb at 815-885-4606. |